I’ve always loved candles, they look so beautiful and a room lit only by candles has a special light all its own. Candles however can be used for a lot more than just setting the mood and beautiful lighting. Massage candles can be a lot of fun, made with cooler burning soy oil, they provide a beautiful and fragrant massage. Dripping candle wax on your lover can also be a fun thing to try. Do use the cooler burning waxes so you don’t burn them. Maybe some of the men though deserve a little hot wax on their cocks!
Tie your partner up and see how much wax you can drip on them and how close you can hold the candle to them before they wince. Remember, if you hold it high and drip it then, it has further to fall and will be cooler than if you hold it close and drip it then. You can be creative. Blindfold them so they don’t know when it will fall on their skin. Tease them. Maybe drip some on their nipples or on their cock and balls. So many men deserve some pain, let’s give into that and make them groan a little bit.
Some like that pleasure with the pain aspect and will get very aroused at that kind of sensation stinging their skin. It can be a lot of fun to watch someone react to various stimuli. Maybe combine some ice cubes into the mix, cold and heat, an erotic combination for temperature play, fire and ice, literally. Cool them down and then heat them up.