It’s An It?

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Last night a man started telling me about a fantasy he had about hermaphrodite. And in his fantasy, it was his mother…Ok…Oh boy. I have had countless guys go on about shemales and trannies in their fantasies, but I can’t say one has ever gone on about a hermaphrodite before. After researching this, I have come to see they are actually a lot more common than people think. Most are operated on in days after birth to reassign them to whatever sex they most closely resemble.

It’s terrible really, in olden days doctors didn’t even tell the parents so they could make a choice. It was just done. It’s unthinkable. Some animals like snails and worms, are natural hermaphrodites, but in people this really seems to upset them, when a for sure sex determination cannot be decided on. I’d think it best to give them a unisex name and let them decide for themselves when they get older what they want done with their own body.

Kind of a scary thought this guy picturing his mom as a hermaphrodite, lots of guys want to fuck mom, and I guess he would. Guess mom would be fucking him too though, since obviously she had a dick as well. Ones have dark recesses in their minds as far as fantasies go, places they would never share with anyone for anything, even their long term spouses and significant others. Many times those would be the last ones they would be sharing their secret passions with.

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Choke Me, Baby……..

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One thing some women are apparently fantasizing about is getting choked during sex. Many interested in this sort of behavior haven’t told their partners about it because they are either concerned they would go too far and not stop, or else they feel it’s too masochistic and they are ashamed of themselves for even thinking about it.

For many, erotic asphyxiation is a regular part of their sex play and some get into using tightened belts, ropes, scarves, hands etc. Seems a bit too dangerous to me and a man in the throes of passion, I don’t think I’d be trusting to stop before he accidentally strangled me. Of course it’s the cutting off of the blood flow and air that is supposed to heighten arousal, and many are killed when they play alone and accidentally hang themselves, several thousand guys a year die from this. What an embarrassing way to go. Some partners have been killed when they didn’t stop in time and faced murder charges, even though it was consensual and no ill intent was involved, but it went too far.

People are always looking to push the envelope it seems to heighten pleasures, even when it seems very unwise and dangerous to do so. I recall feeling very uneasy when one man used to call while doing this and I was always afraid it would go to far. He used a belt and this was right after I became an operator and I was not familiar with this until I looked it up. This job has been an education and a half to be sure.

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Let Sleeping Dogs Lie

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Many of us have problems with attracting people of the opposite sex and rejections, but can you even imagine wanting a partner that would never reject you-because they are dead. Most people that have necrophilia are seeking a non rejecting partner, you can’t get more non rejecting than a dead person that can’t do a thing.  These people are suffering with deep psychological problems to even be thinking that this is the answer.

Mentions of this have been around since the days of ancient Egypt, when particularly beautiful young women that died were left to decompose for a few days to become less appealing to embalmers. In many states it’s not even a felony, just a misdemeanor. I guess they figure it’s a victimless crime. Distasteful yes, but they are already dead, they aren’t hurting them, but how terrible to do such a thing and defile a dead person in such a manner when they can’t defend themselves.

Of all the fetishes people could be involved with, it’s hard to imagine a future partner overlooking this and being ok with having sex with someone that had had sex with a dead person. Some have had sex with a dead partner since the sense of attachment was so strong, they just couldn’t let go of them. The body is just a shell though, not what made them who they were, but I guess if someone is so far off the rails they are considering having sex with a dead body, there’s no reasoning with them.

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Cougars Are Cool

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As a self proclaimed cougar, what is the appeal of a younger man? Well, they look better, sound better, have more stamina and are more pliable personality wise than an older man. They are much more willing to follow your lead and what you want them to do. Many are multiple cummers and are ready to go again in a few minutes for the next round.

Older men seem threatened by this, they feel experience outweighs a randy young man, and perhaps for some it does, but for some of us, there is nothing that can even come close to that youthful energy. No grandpa in his Viagra years can touch that. Sadly, no amount of money can buy youth as we all know. Time is a funny thing, as I was discussing with one of my young phone boy toys. When I was his age, 18, I liked older guys, now that I’m older I like younger and I said when he’s my age he’ll likely be looking at the girls his age he is now, he couldn’t picture it, says young girls are dumb.

Only time will tell. Cougars often have a great sex drive men of their own age cannot meet, yet some randy college boys are usually more than up to the task. Funny thing how nature makes us attracted to ones so different in age, once our own youth is behind us, it becomes even more appealing in others. Makes you feel alive and naughty and like you have a wonderful secret. Not everyone has the mommy/son fantasy going on just because they like younger, youth is just a very appealing commodity.

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You All Have Your Price

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Some men assume by the mere fact that a woman is a phone sex operator that she is a whore or a hooker. She is after all offering sexual services for money, right? Is that not by definition a whore? Whether or not there’s actual physical contact involved. I cannot even count the number of callers that have asked either how much to do this for real, or have you sold yourself for money in the past? Countless.

They seem to feel they are synonymous, that how could it be that far removed? Many just do not get it, that it’s phone only and that’s it. Now that’s for me anyway. I have heard of girls doing hooking on the side and/or meeting clients, so I guess the few that do that give the clients the idea that we all do that. To most girls in the business of phone sex, that’s simply not on the table, but for a few it’s just an extension of what they offer, many are escorts and or strippers or even former porn stars, but why guys would think we all are, I cannot imagine.

One place I used to take calls from, this man called and stated matter of factly he knew I was a porn star. I am??? Gee, news to me! He said that’s what the commercial said on t.v. to which I laughed and said, um, don’t believe everything you see on t.v. Guys can be so silly in their erroneous beliefs and misconceptions they have. We are not all porn stars and masturbation addicts. We are here to entertain you, and in 99% of cases that is it, nothing more.

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