One thing some women are apparently fantasizing about is getting choked during sex. Many interested in this sort of behavior haven’t told their partners about it because they are either concerned they would go too far and not stop, or else they feel it’s too masochistic and they are ashamed of themselves for even thinking about it.
For many, erotic asphyxiation is a regular part of their sex play and some get into using tightened belts, ropes, scarves, hands etc. Seems a bit too dangerous to me and a man in the throes of passion, I don’t think I’d be trusting to stop before he accidentally strangled me. Of course it’s the cutting off of the blood flow and air that is supposed to heighten arousal, and many are killed when they play alone and accidentally hang themselves, several thousand guys a year die from this. What an embarrassing way to go. Some partners have been killed when they didn’t stop in time and faced murder charges, even though it was consensual and no ill intent was involved, but it went too far.
People are always looking to push the envelope it seems to heighten pleasures, even when it seems very unwise and dangerous to do so. I recall feeling very uneasy when one man used to call while doing this and I was always afraid it would go to far. He used a belt and this was right after I became an operator and I was not familiar with this until I looked it up. This job has been an education and a half to be sure.
