When I was younger, I was afraid before I got my first boyfriend that sex was going to hurt a lot and I’d discussed it with a girlfriend and she told me what she’d done to prepare. She said she’d bought a few different sized dildos and trained herself on them well before she and her boyfriend actually did anything so she’d be not experiencing pain when they finally did do it. I figured it was worth a shot, so I ordered a set and did as she suggested over a few weeks. Callers will often ask about your first time and the sorts of things that happened then.
They do also like to hear about masturbation habits, so this sort of goes with both of those lines of questions. I told my boyfriend about this, since he was afraid of hurting me and he thought it was a good idea to do this as well. The big night came and my “training” had worked. I was not in any pain when we did it. I also had a set of nice dildos I used while masturbating. I was always afraid my mom would find them in my bedside table, but she never mentioned anything about them if she did see them. She was good about valuing my privacy.
I’ve loved sex toys since this, they gave me a very positive experience and have added a lot to my enjoyment of masturbation. There’s several that I have that I use depending on what I’m in the mood for. Many times my fingers alone are fine and I don’t need any toys to heighten my enjoyment, but sometimes toys are fun. Many guys call while using them as well, so everyone enjoys sex toys. They can just add some variety to your usual masturbation routine. Try a few and see which ones drive you over the edge.
