Sometimes you get a really unusual call that sticks out in your mind. I had one last night from an Orthodox Jew. You’d not think they’d be calling for phone sex, but it was very educational. Although married with three children, this man had only ever had missionary sex in total darkness with his wife, that’s it. No touching, no oral, and he didn’t even use his hands when he masturbated and said he never had, as it was forbidden. He was on his stomach dry humping and going to cum into one of his baby’s diapers to mop up the cum, it was very odd.
His life had been so sheltered, he said growing up they were not permitted a t.v., nor radio, let alone internet. Even a trip to the library was forbidden. Not until a week before his marriage at eighteen was he told anything about what happened between couples. How he ever found out about phone sex is beyond me. He fantasized about a different, normal sort of life, but would have been cut off from everyone he knew should he have left, so it was out of the question. His accent was heavy, so I asked where he was from. He said he was born and raised in New York City, but was so sheltered, he only spoke Yiddish until he was nearly twelve and then he was given limited English lessons, so he sounded like a complete foreigner even though he was not. It was pretty much home and religious school.
Sex was once a week at most, which is more than many traditional men I speak to get for sure, but most of them have had more than missionary in the dark with only one person. It’s interesting to hear such tales of isolation basically from what most would consider normal. There are many people out there among us leading very unusual, secret lives very foreign to us on every level.
