The allure of the older, more experienced woman is always a popular one with callers. So many had fantasies about that friend of their mom, or the older neighbor lady. One common scene they have is that they are enjoying some “private time” and oops, in walks mom’s friend or the neighbor lady that popped in to look for their mom. She’s not at home, but oh what they have stumbled into! The young lad is of course embarrassed at being seen in such an awkward, intimate, private moment, but the understanding older lady soon reassures them it’s alright, no need to be upset. They then confess they’ve always had a crush on her for many years, and of course she helps them finish what they’d started alone.
Different spins on this fantasy are extremely popular with men. Not all men are seeking the nubile, inexperienced young woman. Some seek that more stable, mature woman who will be the perfect person to show them the ropes. She has the patience, the understanding, and of course it’s always flattering being found attractive by a young man half your age or less. Older women are more desired than they realize, and often the object of someone’s fantasies they had no idea was attracted to them in the first place.
Younger men, or older men that like to pretend in fantasies they are still younger, are eager to learn the sexual ways of the older woman. It’s surprising how many callers have said they have had sexual encounters with women in their seventies, even when they were in their twenties. Over fifty no longer means over the hill and undesirable for a woman. There is someone, somewhere fantasizing over them, even ones in nursing homes have men mentioned they have been attracted to. It’s shocking at times to hear ones recount sexual experiences with average women they met in their lives. Someone they did odd jobs for, or met in some everyday way, they had a fling with them and have a lifelong passion for the older woman.
