Trust Me

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A lot more people than you’d think are into BDSM scenarios and fantasies than you’d imagine. This didn’t all start with the 50 Shades of Grey books, it’s always been around, simmering under the surface. Books like that have just helped it come more into the foreground of public awareness, but it’s always been there. Nine and a Half Weeks in the 1980’s was a mainstream movie that also brought such ideas to the public.

No longer were things like handcuffs and blindfolds and spankings only practiced by the fringes of society in most people’s minds. Maybe the neighbors were doing it, maybe your siblings were doing it with their spouses, you didn’t know. Maybe you didn’t even want to know. Sexual liberation and more permissive attitudes have only continued over the last decades. No longer is oral sex or masturbation the taboo that it was. Now BDSM activities are getting their time in the sun as a fun way you can broaden your horizons with your partner and develop more trust within your relationship. Since most times the activities like blindfolding, tying up your partner, etc., do require more trust.

These are not activities you’d be doing with someone while having a one night stand with someone in most cases. You need to feel comfortable with your partner and trust them to a degree to allow yourself to be vulnerable with them and entrust your safety to them. It can deepen a relationship to do these kinds of activities that require that level of trust. Some will never have it or be comfortable with it, others might in time.

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I’ll Teach You A Thing Or Two

 

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A hot fantasy for many is the teacher student one. Most times we think of the older man and the teen student he shouldn’t be thinking about, but many times these days it’s the female teachers that have been getting caught being naughty with the young male ones.

There was a case here in Canada recently where I’m from that bothers me, and several more similar where the female teacher was cavorting with male students that were over the age of consent, but the mere fact that they were the teachers and in the position of power that was the illegal component to the story. In one case I read about the male student was 18, certainly of age, it’s the power thing, and I think that’s absurd. No one is putting a gun to their head to play with these ladies, they very obviously want to be there. It’s a fucked up system to keep people away from each other that very obviously want to be together in my opinion.

The idea of getting the teacher, sometimes fantasizing about taking them over the desk, “teaching them” a thing or two, that is quite appealing to many young men about a certain hot teacher. I couldn’t trust myself to be a teacher, I like young guys too much! Best to avoid temptation I guess in the first place. I’ve spoken with a couple of guys over the years that claimed to have banged a teacher, who knows if it’s true or only a fantasy they embellished upon, one doesn’t really know. The forbidden fruit certainly does taste the sweetest in many cases.

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Me, Mom And The Girlfriend

A client sent me an interesting story he wrote this week to do an audio of. It was a threesome with two women, nothing odd there, a very common fantasy, yet the odd thing was one of the women in the threesome was his mom. His fantasy was his girlfriend and his mom loved to play together and get it on, kissing and fingering each others pussies and rub their pussies together scissoring, then he comes in and joins the action.

I must say, it was a bit of a different scenario, yet one that obviously drove him wild. How wet his mom’s pussy got as his girlfriend went down on her in front of him as he stroked his cock watching it all for them both. Then his girlfriend wanted to watch him fuck his mom right in front of her as she rubbed her pussy and watched as he entered her and came inside of her, the girlfriend being totally fine and aroused b the proceedings. It was an interesting and unexpected thing for the threesome to have his mom in it. Mommy fantasies are common, threesomes are common, yet I don’t think until now I got the two combined like this.

I have actually had a few callers that had fantasies where they were fucking both their parents in a threesome, which was odd enough, yet it happens. Talk about family togetherness, you can’t get much closer than that for sure. How many guys worry about their mom’s not liking their choice of a girlfriend, well in his case they really liked each other, obviously!

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Are You Man Enough?

Lots of guys fantasize about the cougars. Even ones that are older like to pretend they are younger in their fantasies about the older woman. Sometimes the friend of their mom, the mom of their friend, or a slutty neighbor they have been lusting for. Usually the older lady is seducing them and turning them from boys to men. It’s amusing how ones will be in their 50’s or 60’s and like to roleplay and fantasize they are in their teens again being seduced by the horny neighbor lady.

The teachers they wish they could have fucked over their desks that they watched for years they wanted to be their first cougar. Many young guys in real life though can’t even begin to handle a real life cougar. We intimidate them, frighten them, make them head for the hills when we really are interested in them. They for the most part just can’t handle it. Some can, and my hat’s off to them for being so mature. Most however are truly emotionally immature little jerks that think they want something, but when it’s offered to them, they simply can’t deal with it and bail.

To them, it’s the fantasy and not the reality of the cougar that gets them going. Fantasy they can handle, reality not usually unless they are a rare mature one. The more experienced older woman is something many masturbate to and think they will be in seventh heaven over if they get it, but it takes a special boy to really please the older woman.

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On Your Knees, Slave

A top fantasy for many men is being dominated by a woman. Lots of men are in fact submissive, the calls certainly show that much. They want to be told what to do for the most part. To be used, instructed. Some are into more hardcore activities like pegging with a strap on, and face sitting or forced bi. Many more men are into forced bi and cock sucking and anal play than you’d think.

Lots call using toys on themselves and they are often afraid their wives might find them. Some have even revealed they have used cucumbers or candles or carrots since they are afraid their wives might find a toy and they are afraid to be thought of as gay if they are using a toy on themselves. A nurse I spoke to recently said you wouldn’t believe what people come in to the ER stuck up their rear end, obviously not toys that are designed for there. So you’d think the possible embarrassment from your partner finding a toy would be less than an entire ER of medical personal snickering and mocking you and telling everyone they know and laughing about you, but people do not make the best decisions when they are horny.

Dominatrix’s can make a pretty decent living whipping the shit out of their sub clients that go to them to be abused. Some can be very cruel in the tasks they ask people to carry out on themselves. It’s amazing how badly some men like to be treated and will pay handsomely for it in most cases.

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