Bigger, Blacker, Better

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One of my long time clients is very much into BBC, big, black cock. He’s a smaller guy, only around 5’6, and is attracted to huge, hung, black guys over 6’4 and with cocks the size of forearms. He’s actually emailed me pics of some of these guys he’s played with. Some he’s paid, others he has gotten to play with him for free. Some of the dildos he uses are beyond huge and he said one took over four hours to get inside, it was over thirteen inches long.

Their cocks are as big around as a can of pop, not sure how anyone could accommodate such a monster, but some certainly look at it as a challenge to try. The size of some of these cocks is not to be believed, they should be in some freaks of nature website pictorial. He calls and goes on about how badly he wants them to stretch him open, even crying about it, the desire is so great. Sobbing because he doesn’t know if he can in fact take the big, black cock inside, but he will try.

Some men into BBC do not consider themselves gay, many would be classified as bi, since they also on occasion have sex with women, but most of them seem to also have very small penises. BBC porn is their staple, and their own inadequate cocks in comparison is enough to drive them to uncontrolled sobs of anguish. There seems to be a good number of BBC escorts out there to satisfy these men, and no shortage of ads on classifieds sites in the personals sections.

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WAM – Wet & Messy

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When most people say they want to get down and dirty for sexy, they are meaning covered in cum, body juices, dirty that way. When ones into sploshing say it, they are meaning it in an entirely different way. WAM I learned this week, is short for wet and messy. Some guys love to get their gal covered in all sorts of messy foods. Seems simple and innocent enough. Get some pudding and bottles of chocolate syrup and honey and you’re good to go.

Apparently some quicksand fetish guys are also into sploshing, must be the same idea of being covered in goo, all over, messy and sticky and just about as dirty as one could possibly get. I’ve only ever had a couple of sploshing callers, into tossing pies at women, but it is an interesting fetish. Seems a waste of food, but otherwise one of the better fetishes I would not mind participating in. I can even recall as a child wanting a pie tossed in my face like in The Three Stooges! A caller once said he wanted baked beans poured down his pants and I laughed and thought I’d pour them down your pants, right off the stove!

Food is a thing of comfort, and the foods are always messy that are involved in this fetish, ones don’t fantasize about tossing bacon and blueberries at people, it’s custards, pies, puddings, bowls of oatmeal and whipped cream, messy, gooey things. As long as they were prepared to do the cleanup, I’d be happy to have them pour or toss food on me, there’s far worse things ones could be into.

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Pussy Makeover

 

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Some guys are just happy to get a pussy, they aren’t particular about the look of it, shaved, unshaved, etc. Now there are pussy makeovers the self conscious woman can get, everything from genital cosmetics, imagine having to worry about putting make up on down there even in addition to ones face. To cosmetic gynocology, where ones with lopsided pussy lips that resemble an overstuffed roast beef sandwich can be carved into a much better looking version of what they have.

You’ll never have a perfect porn pussy, nature really only can make the best looking ones, but surgery can alter what you have. Some pussy lips are so big and floppy they actually can affect choices in swimsuits and workout clothes and underwear. There’s even genital jewelry that ones can get to add some sparkle to the coochie if they so desire. It used to be just being dressed and made up was enough, but now with everything from anal bleaching and pubic hair removal, grooming has gotten a lot more extensive these days.

Some guys prefer a hairy pussy, so there’s no need to impress those ones with jewelry, I don’t think genital jewelry would even work with hairy pussies, it would get caught up in the hair! I guess if it makes you feel better, more civilized and groomed, do all you can to dress it up to the nines. The cosmetics and jewelry adornment seems a bit much, but the shaving and in some cases anal bleaching I could see many would prefer. Let’s look our best at both our ends!

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Tickle, Tickle, Tickle!

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One of the things so many clients call up doing is using anal toys on themselves. Sometimes even their wives or girlfriends toys they have no clue their naughty, dirty men are putting their sex toys up their asses. One can only hope they clean them off afterwards, but knowing most men, I’m not banking on it.

Prostate massage is supposed to be the male equivalent of the female G spot orgasm, one so powerful that they can ejaculate without even touching their cocks. Must suck for ones that in later life have to get their prostate removed if they had powerful orgasms that way and that’s no longer an option. Not all women are going to be comfortable sliding their fingers up their man’s backsides even to give them pleasure. For some it’s just a no go zone and they do not want to go there. It’s incredible how many on the phone mention this and are doing something to stimulate themselves anally, usually without telling their partners because of it being a no go zone for many women.

It just seems medical, like giving an exam, and for many, ass anything is off limits, so the guys resort to toys when they masturbate, since their ladies are not going to give them a helping hand so to speak. Many toys are shaped just for this purpose to give that kind of orgasm, thought some men are nervous to get such toys for fear their wife or girlfriend finds them. If you have a willing partner though and they don’t mind, try it out and see if she can hit your internal pleasure zone, you just might like it!

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Woman’s Rape Fantasies

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The bodice ripper novel is a very old staple in literature. Most women will never want to actually be brutally, violently raped, but the type of fantasies some women have and many men as well, is one of reluctance, a “soft rape” as it were. Were the hero just takes what he wants, but the woman is purring and satisfied by the end and gives in. Like Scarlett O’Hara kicking and screaming as Rhett Butler carries her up the stairs.

A client this week is very into women’s romance novels, not something I think I ever heard a client admit to me, he has a collection of them even and loves this type of scenario where the leady is taken semi against her will, yet of course is satisfied by the end. His fantasies are much more female sounding than male, yet some males do enjoy that type of fantasy as well, and of course he’s the one doing it, not the woman being taken. Some women into rough sex might not call it rape, but they like to put up a struggle and have the man overtake them.

All “rape” fantasies are not from strangers in back alleys brandishing knives or a gun, most are featuring people we know we’d like to conquer us in some way and this is a normal and safe way to express it, via a fantasy or over the phone having a phone sex operator enact it verbally with you, to some it’s just another roleplay. Many good girl types cannot let go and need to have a man take charge so they are having it done against their will kind of thing. It gives them permission to have sex without giving their own consent to do so.

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