I Said The Wrong Name

Posted on November 14, 2011 by Sharon

 

A common sexual fantasy is reliving a past pleasant experience. Sometimes you are with someone else entirely when you are having these thoughts. This can prove embarrassing and troublesome if we happen to mention the other persons name at an inopportune moment.

This has happened to me on a phone date. Better than a real life situation for sure. The poor guy so wanted me to say his name at the moment of orgasm, and I said a name alright, but it wasn’t his…..Ouch. He had enough class not to mention it and I thought it best to ignore, I realized it right away, and felt very badly. I can only imagine a real life situation being a lot worse.

How many guys have slipped and called the one they are with by an ex girlfriends name, many, I am sure. If an experience was pleasant, of course we want to relive it. I mentioned this awkward situation to someone and they said it’s because I wish the one whose name I actually said was giving me all of my orgasms, well, perhaps there’s something to that. But in any case, best to try and keep track. At that exact moment, I can barely recall my own name, let alone someone else’s.

One wants to replay a gratifying experience over and over again, and if that person is no longer in our lives, we often “pretend” that the one we are able to be with is the person we would in all honesty much rather be having fun with.

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Dirty Dancing

Posted on November 7, 2011 by Sharon

I had a client that called me with a very hot lap dancing fantasy. He wanted to imagine going into a hot strip club and getting turned on by the sexy dancers that were up on stage stripping, and then go into a private room for a more private dance.

He had this entire scene set in his mind, the music in the background, the hot, sexy blonde dancer wearing a skimpy g-string and nothing over her ample breasts. Him sitting in a chair in a small, curtained backroom, his throbbing, aching cock pulsating in his pants with desire for the busty dancer that was writhing all over his body, and him unable to touch her, as he looked into her eyes and her dry humping him, her hardened nipples right in his face as pre cum leaked out his cock, making a small wet spot on the crotch of his pants.

Doing everything in his power to keep from reaching out and squeezing her tits that are right in front of him, nearly grazing his lips. Him bucking upwards, hoping to feel her hot, and surely dripping pussy press against his crotch. Then her bending over in front of him and showing  him her ass and her pussy lips peeking out from the skimpy g-string. How badly he just wants to reach out and finger her juicy cunt, but he’s not allowed to touch, only look on as he cums in his pants and she smiles knowingly….

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Desiring The Sister In Law

Posted on October 30, 2011 by Sharon

How many men out there are desiring their sister in law? Quite a few, I can tell you. I get calls all the time from men that have had the long term hots for their wives sister.

They realize that this could be a very dangerous choice to try and have an affair with though. Not only would it endanger their relationship with their wife, but the wife and sisters relationship with each other.

It’s bad enough to have a partner cheat on you, but with your own sister? You would feel betrayed by two people instead of just one.

One man I talked to was so filled with desire for his sister in law after 30 years, he could barely not say her name to his wife when they made love each time. I told him he’d better watch that, as it could proved beyond troublesome.

Another guy had wanted his sister in law for 10 years, and she and her husband lived across the street from him and his wife, and I said if he did anything, it would affect 2 marriages, and make living in such close proximity to each other torture, and destroy the relationship his wife had with her sister, yet he was so desirous of her and wondered if she might feel the same way towards him, it was quite a hot conversation actually, him sharing all these long standing feelings for her that he had and had never been able to share with anyone.

The fantasy of having one that is basically forbidden like this is very common, the same would be true for women that wanted their sisters husband, it could be so much worse than an affair with a stranger. Many siblings relationships have been destroyed by this type of situation.

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The Faceless Stranger

Posted on October 23, 2011 by Sharon

Sex with the faceless/nameless stranger with no strings holds appeal for many. Like two ships passing in the night. Enjoying their brief interlude with one another.

How many people have met in a bar, flirted with someone for a while, felt that chemistry, yet were not looking for a relationship, so they ended up fucking their brains out in a dim corner and left one another without even knowing one another’s names? I’d hazard a guess and say a good number. Almost as if in a dream, a suspended state of reality, not the “real world” we all live in.

Sometimes even a setting like a Halloween party could be the perfect opportunity to explore this idea, as ones can be wearing masks and their true identities hidden from view. Zorro is one sexy masked man!

Even if actual masks are not worn, how many times have ones sitting next to each other on an airplane on a long flight maybe joined the mile high club and never really seen each other again. The whole idea of a short interlude, not really connected to your everyday life in any way can be an appealing escape for too many to resist.

 
Like a break in our own reality. The sexy opening scene from the 80’s movie “No Way Out” with Kevin Costner and Sean  Young, where they meet at an event and have passionate sex in the back of the limo all before even introducing themselves by name is a perfect example of sex with a stranger.

 

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Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down

Posted on October 17, 2011 by Sharon

One of most women’s top sexual fantasies is to be dominated. Yes, please! Tie me up and tease me and bring me to the brink over and over before letting me cum.

Now we’re not talking leather masks and hoods and riding crops in most cases, but many women these days are the ones in positions of power and in the bedroom, so ones like that often desire for the man to assume the dominant role and become the aggressor.

I have a confidant personality, a few have even said overbearing, but in the bedroom I would want the man to be the one in charge. To tie me up and make me beg for it. God, that gets me so fucking hot when they say that. To be made to feel I am only there to please them and do as they wish and be their obedient fuck toy anytime they so desire. Oh yes……..

Many men love to play the role of master and have their women play their sex slaves and sluts. I have no problem with that, it turns me on a great deal, as long as everything is consensual and makes both people happy and satisfied.

There’s something very sexy about giving up control like that. If you trust the person and feel safe, there’s nothing to fear, you’re in their control and they have you safely under their control. I adore it and nothing makes me cum harder than having them make me beg for it.

 

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