Something many men call to talk about is forcing themselves on someone. Now I don’t do too violent type of calls, but some like the idea of pinning someone down and not letting them up. Not all force has to end with blood being drawn and black eyes. By sheer strength alone and most men being larger, it doesn’t take much to over power a woman, so brute force isn’t required in most cases.
I’m not sure why men have such violent fantasies at all, but many do and I guess better they call to talk about them than to actually do them in real life. Likely in their own lives they wouldn’t ever do anything like what they want to talk about, hopefully not. Yet they can work these thoughts out on calls and fantasize they are doing the things in the deepest, darkest recesses of their minds so hopefully it will never become a reality for them or the women they are putting in their dark little scenarios.
In some relationships, the women will allow their partner to act these things out and have a safe word so if the action gets too intense they can stop. As long as it’s consensual, that’s fine. People consent to some weird things for sure, but as long as everyone is ok with some rough sex, then have at it. Many like being bruised or scratched. It’s like “love marks”, their personal battle scars, hopefully ones that will heal. Some do however like to talk about smacking their women around and even mention current events in the news that will confirm to them some women like getting smacked around and will tolerate it, like Rihanna, or the wife of that football player that was beaten up in the elevator. They like to mention cases like this.