Lots of women are sexually repressed. They fantasize and want sex, but try as they might they can’t get the kind of fulfillment they seek in a normal relationship. They have either been brought up in a strict background, perhaps a religious one and just can’t “let go” and enjoy sex. Many times women like this can have rape fantasies or stranger fantasies.
A fantasy about a stranger, or a one night stand sort of scenario is often because they can let go with someone they will never see again, there will be no consequences for their actions, they literally will never have to see this person and look them in the eye again. They can be their true passionate self and do the most debased things they dream about and will never have to have anyone know what a dirty girl they really are. The guy they see at the bar and go home with and have hot sex with never to be seen again. The guy they meet on vacation and have a fling with, that their friends and family will never know existed. These are the dream sexual encounters for some of these women with repressive natures.
Some only are attracted to men they know would never be approved by friends and family, so they only see those sorts away from home on a vacation. They have sexual needs they are afraid to have met on a regular basis at home for fear someone they know finds out about the real them and what they crave and desire. So fantasizing about a stranger or meeting with ones fleetingly that will have no real effect on their daily lives is appealing to these women living double lives.
