Some men love to degrade women during their sexual fantasies. They like to think and speak about them with me how they hopefully never would with their partners. I can think of one man that used to like quite degrading scenarios and envisioned his former girlfriends that had hurt him being the ones being degraded. Everything from being pissed on to gargling his piss to being cummed on and being called names.
Sometimes men are thoughtful enough to ask beforehand if I mind being called names on calls, I reply I’ve been called names in my life and not gotten paid for it, so I can handle it. They understand they can’t really talk to their real life ladies this way, since no one but a masochist would allow themselves to be talked to in that manner. Many men also prefer the type of porn that features degrading acts, and not “regular” porn. They can’t enact these sorts of things themselves, so they get off on watching others get it in the movies they watch.
I have found some women even enjoy being degraded, some to a milder degree than others. Even when you know your guy respects you, it can be hot for a very once in a while, “you’re my slut”. It can be fun sort of! But both people have to agree to that, if someone starts calling you names and you’re not prepared for it, it just makes you have hurt feelings. Sometimes though if one of my boys calls me his “cougar whore”, I know he means it in the best possible way!
