December is for many, one of the most hectic and busy months of the year, so it’s easy for their not to be much time for romance or sex when you’re worried about making it to multiple family members homes for holiday visits and gift exchanges and dinners and parties. The whirlwind month can often leave us too short on time to deal with our libido, unless it’s a five minute quickie in the shower, which most are not going to be satisfied with. There’s gifts to shop for a wrap, kids to contend with, it’s not easy to find some “alone time.”
Make even one night of the month for you and your partner, if you have one that’s willing to have sex with you. Or if you have no partner, or if they closed up shop between their legs years ago and don’t give you anything, set aside some time for yourself. Tell them you have some last minute shopping or some other excuse so you can have some quality masturbation time. There’s so many guys that call from either their car or work, or any place they can get a little privacy to themselves. Being stressed, which not having an orgasm can lead to, is not the best way to deal with an already stressful month.
If you have someone, have a special date night. Send the kids if you have any, over to a grandparents house, or a friends home, and enjoy a couple of hours at least of some quality time. A massage and an orgasm can make those cares fall away, even if only for a couple of hours. Some sensual lovemaking and kissing can make a bright spot in your otherwise hectic holiday schedule. The beauty of the decorations and lights can make it all seem even nicer than usual. Enjoy it.
