Surprisingly or not so surprisingly, some callers that call phone sex lines are adult virgins, and of all ages. They are awkward around women and socially, they find it a lot easier to talk to someone on the phone that approach them face to face and often ask for advice on what to do. I usually tell them to go to an escort to get their confidence up, since they are so uncomfortable being around women they like and all the pressure they feel literally cripples them emotionally to do anything about it.
They are often educated and have decent jobs, but have not been able to get women to like them for whatever reason and escorts can take that pressure off of them for never having done it before that makes them tongue tied and unable to approach a woman. If they’re going to go to an escort they do not have any emotional ties to this person, they are going to be able to look at it as a strictly educational encounter with no feelings of love to hamper them and make them uncomfortable. One said when I suggested this he was worried he’d fall in love with the first woman he’d have sex with, escort or not.
It’s funny how interacting with the members of the opposite sex comes so easily for some and for others it’s so difficult it’s not even an option, and ones like that still have a normal sex drive, masturbate a lot and often will turn to things like phone sex because it’s still an interaction with a woman, even though it’s a paid for one, yet it’s less intimidating than a real woman face to face. I do think men that have gotten this far in life should just go to an escort and put it behind them, it’s a real weight on some of them, and they don’t even tell other people in their lives since many times they are embarrassed to reveal they are still virgins at their age.
