Shut Up And Take It!

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Something many men call to talk about is forcing themselves on someone. Now I don’t do too violent type of calls, but some like the idea of pinning someone down and not letting them up. Not all force has to end with blood being drawn and black eyes. By sheer strength alone and most men being larger, it doesn’t take much to over power a woman, so brute force isn’t required in most cases.

I’m not sure why men have such violent fantasies at all, but many do and I guess better they call to talk about them than to actually do them in real life. Likely in their own lives they wouldn’t ever do anything like what they want to talk about, hopefully not. Yet they can work these thoughts out on calls and fantasize they are doing the things in the deepest, darkest recesses of their minds so hopefully it will never become a reality for them or the women they are putting in their dark little scenarios.

In some relationships, the women will allow their partner to act these things out and have a safe word so if the action gets too intense they can stop. As long as it’s consensual, that’s fine. People consent to some weird things for sure, but as long as everyone is ok with some rough sex, then have at it. Many like being bruised or scratched. It’s like “love marks”, their personal battle scars, hopefully ones that will heal. Some do however like to talk about smacking their women around and even mention current events in the news that will confirm to them some women like getting smacked around and will tolerate it, like Rihanna, or the wife of that football player that was beaten up in the elevator. They like to mention cases like this.

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You’re A Real Doll!

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Real life romance hasn’t worked out for everyone. Yet not everyone is looking to rent and hire an escort due to diseases or if someone they knew found out, it’s a real issue for some. There is an option out there for the brave and the determined and the ones willing to invest a little. There are now sex dolls out there that are not the $100 cheap, blow up dolls that were once a gag prop at parties.

There are sex dolls out there so real looking and that cost thousands of dollars. I can’t imagine making such a purchase, but for ones that are looking for a simulated experience it may be just what they are looking for. Yes, you could likely have many nights with a real escort for the price of one of the dolls, but you can take the doll out and fuck it at any time, no appointment, or condom, needed. For ones with a very intense fantasy life that are able to imagine well and easily, perhaps a sex doll might fit in well with their rich fantasy fueled thoughts.

I even found online there were child sized dolls and some were in an uproar over that. Honestly, I thought it was a good idea when I saw it if they’d turn to a doll than the real child if this is where their fantasies lie. It could in fact prevent actual children from abuse was my first thought. Most of the people were outraged though and wanted production of the dolls stopped. They don’t talk to the men I do and hear all I do and realize the dolls are a good idea to prevent actual crimes. Dolls could be an alternative for many reasons.

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Keep It In Your Pants

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You wouldn’t think it would be anyone’s fantasy to be in chastity, let alone be in an uncomfortable plastic or metal device to keep them from not only fucking anyone else, but even from their own hand, yet some truly are. I speak to men several times a week that are in chastity of of one kind or another. Most are obviously in pre purchased devices, but some that are craftsmen of sorts are actually making their own.

One sent pics of a metal belt he’d made with his welding skills and I was shocked to see it and suggested he get a little website or something and offer these as custom made chastity devices, since as unbelievable as it sounds, there is a small market for men that wish to be in a state of denial like this. His Mistress had once kept him in one for upwards of six months. I asked if it wasn’t uncomfortable, which it certainly looked, and he said he’d gotten used to it, and wore it around the clock, bathed in it, soaked in the tub in it so the soapy water could get into the air perforation holes, it was all quite bizarre.

I know of a popular fetish site and have seen many handcrafted items for sale there like custom made bullwhips. Hard to believe there’s a market for custom made bullwhips, yet apparently there is, and they were hundreds of dollars, too! So who knows what someone actually has on under their clothes when you see them wander on by, you really have no idea.

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Trust Me

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A lot more people than you’d think are into BDSM scenarios and fantasies than you’d imagine. This didn’t all start with the 50 Shades of Grey books, it’s always been around, simmering under the surface. Books like that have just helped it come more into the foreground of public awareness, but it’s always been there. Nine and a Half Weeks in the 1980’s was a mainstream movie that also brought such ideas to the public.

No longer were things like handcuffs and blindfolds and spankings only practiced by the fringes of society in most people’s minds. Maybe the neighbors were doing it, maybe your siblings were doing it with their spouses, you didn’t know. Maybe you didn’t even want to know. Sexual liberation and more permissive attitudes have only continued over the last decades. No longer is oral sex or masturbation the taboo that it was. Now BDSM activities are getting their time in the sun as a fun way you can broaden your horizons with your partner and develop more trust within your relationship. Since most times the activities like blindfolding, tying up your partner, etc., do require more trust.

These are not activities you’d be doing with someone while having a one night stand with someone in most cases. You need to feel comfortable with your partner and trust them to a degree to allow yourself to be vulnerable with them and entrust your safety to them. It can deepen a relationship to do these kinds of activities that require that level of trust. Some will never have it or be comfortable with it, others might in time.

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I’ll Teach You A Thing Or Two

 

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A hot fantasy for many is the teacher student one. Most times we think of the older man and the teen student he shouldn’t be thinking about, but many times these days it’s the female teachers that have been getting caught being naughty with the young male ones.

There was a case here in Canada recently where I’m from that bothers me, and several more similar where the female teacher was cavorting with male students that were over the age of consent, but the mere fact that they were the teachers and in the position of power that was the illegal component to the story. In one case I read about the male student was 18, certainly of age, it’s the power thing, and I think that’s absurd. No one is putting a gun to their head to play with these ladies, they very obviously want to be there. It’s a fucked up system to keep people away from each other that very obviously want to be together in my opinion.

The idea of getting the teacher, sometimes fantasizing about taking them over the desk, “teaching them” a thing or two, that is quite appealing to many young men about a certain hot teacher. I couldn’t trust myself to be a teacher, I like young guys too much! Best to avoid temptation I guess in the first place. I’ve spoken with a couple of guys over the years that claimed to have banged a teacher, who knows if it’s true or only a fantasy they embellished upon, one doesn’t really know. The forbidden fruit certainly does taste the sweetest in many cases.

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