My client that is heavily into escorts and thinks all truly good sexual encounters need to be paid for had a different spin this week on his fantasies. He wanted to pay his sister for it. She was going to come home unexpectedly and catch him jerking off on her bed with her panties and he was going to pay her to keep her quiet from telling mom and dad. Not only that, for the money she was going to have to finish him off as well.
This quickly descended into a how much would you make me pay you to suck me off? How much for full on sex? All of course with the sister. He has it so ingrained that all sex needs to be paid for, it’s a bizarre way of thinking. There are men that are just the opposite, that no way in hell would they ever pay for any sex, not on the phone and certainly not for real. But how many have girlfriends they are taking out to dinner, picking up the tab for, taking on weekends a way? It’s the same thing really, just disguised a lot differently and more socially acceptable.
Men pay one way or another usually. It’s just some have the common sense to think they’d rather pay $200 upfront and get sex rather than pay $200 for a night out at the theater and fancy restaurant beforehand to get same said sex. They are both paying x amount, both getting laid, yet one is doing it upfront, the other jumping through quite a number of hoops and wasting more time to do so. These complex rules we as a society have can be confusing and a waste of time to many more goal oriented individuals.