A common sexual fantasy is reliving a past pleasant experience. Sometimes you are with someone else entirely when you are having these thoughts. This can prove embarrassing and troublesome if we happen to mention the other persons name at an inopportune moment.
This has happened to me on a phone date. Better than a real life situation for sure. The poor guy so wanted me to say his name at the moment of orgasm, and I said a name alright, but it wasn’t his…..Ouch. He had enough class not to mention it and I thought it best to ignore, I realized it right away, and felt very badly. I can only imagine a real life situation being a lot worse.
How many guys have slipped and called the one they are with by an ex girlfriends name, many, I am sure. If an experience was pleasant, of course we want to relive it. I mentioned this awkward situation to someone and they said it’s because I wish the one whose name I actually said was giving me all of my orgasms, well, perhaps there’s something to that. But in any case, best to try and keep track. At that exact moment, I can barely recall my own name, let alone someone else’s.
One wants to replay a gratifying experience over and over again, and if that person is no longer in our lives, we often “pretend” that the one we are able to be with is the person we would in all honesty much rather be having fun with.
