Gay people have sexual fantasies the same as the rest of us, but I recently learned of one gay man’s fantasy and it was a bit different. I hear about incest fantasies all the time, so that didn’t phase me much, but the way it was described, almost made it not a regular incest fantasy, but a reversal of control fantasy.
He wanted to fuck his father, and it seemed it was because his father was not accepting of his son’s sexuality and by doing this he was putting the father in the submissive position. It was interesting to exert control over a parent in this way in a sexual fantasy. There was no history of past childhood sexual abuse or trauma, he was just a gay man that had a father that didn’t approve of his son’s sexuality and somehow in his mind he worked this out so he was going to nail Dad and show him who’s boss!
The topics of fantasies are so wide and varied, I’d say there is no limit to the sorts of things people’s minds wander to during their intimate moments, especially when they are masturbating. When they are with a partner, in most cases the brakes are on in some ways since they worry how the partner may react if they reveal what they are thinking about. But when we are alone, there are no limits, the wildest of the wild is allowed in our own minds, no one is ever going to know about it unless we share it with them.
