Does the idea of sex with a stranger appeal to you? Totally anonymous, no strings attached sex that is hot and heavy and over with no guilt. I can see the appeal but have never gone down such a path.
So many women have the fantasy since they don’t want the responsibility of being the bad girl. If you allow yourself to be seduced by the charismatic stranger, you can give up the guilt, give up the worries. Some are so into guilt, they actually have to go so far as to have a rape fantasy, since they simply cannot allow themselves that pleasure with no strings. They have to be forced into pleasure.
Well sex with a stranger is not quite as severe as that. I don’t get the whole hit and run sex thing. If something is good, I cannot grasp why anyone would not want to repeat it over and over. Yes, an experience can be good as a stand alone thing, but I’d always be left wanting more. Not for me.
A “nice guy” isn’t likely to be having sex with a stranger. More like the edgy “bad boy”. One guy told me once the idea was unthinkable to him, that he liked to be in a relationship for at least 6 months before having sex. My jaw literally dropped. He was serious……
In fantasy I can see the appeal, but not for real life. It can be hot, no one is saying it isn’t, but I dislike the always left wanting more feeling that would be sure to come with a one night stand situation with a stranger, to say nothing of the risks involved.
But like the old saying and song goes, if you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with. Stranger or not.
