A top fantasy for many men is watching a lady masturbate. I talk to guys all the time who really love watching a woman touch herself and bring herself to orgasm, often as they are doing the same thing close by.
They complain a lot of women are just too shy or self conscience to do this with an audience, even if it’s just an audience of one. You have to really feel comfortable with someone to let yourself go like this. It can be a very vulnerable moment and make it even more difficult to orgasm knowing you’re being watched.
I’d think it would be more arousing to have them reach out and do the touching, but many want to watch them stroke their pussy, rub their clit, even use toys and insert them and cum over and over as they stare hungrily over at this all going on an arms reach away. It can be so tantalizing for them to witness an act of self pleasure on the woman’s behalf.
They also love the idea of watching a woman lick her own juices off of her fingers. They want to watch and masturbate themselves as they watch this all unfold right across from them.
And of course almost, if not even more exciting is when they get the chance to watch a woman that isn’t aware she’s being watched. To view such a personal act in secret and spy on someone that doesn’t know they are being watched can be extraordinarily exciting. To be hidden in the shadows and watch like that. There are some very naughty boys out there!
