One thing that many callers enjoy is guided masturbation, or jerk off instruction, otherwise known as “JOI.” The idea of being told how fast, how slow, how hard, how soft, to touch themselves is an irresistible treat to many men. They are in fact giving the woman they are speaking to complete control of their orgasm, even though the woman is not in the room with them, and many men love to relinquish sexual control to a woman, it’s highly arousing to them.
They will follow your instructions tot the letter and they will only cum when you give them permission to do so. If you tell them to remove their hand completely, they will do it. Unless you have given them permission to touch themselves in a certain way, they will not go against your instructions. It can be fun to give this power up, only until you yourself have to another person, you cannot grasp the appeal, some are just too much of a control freak to allow anyone this power over them, but it’s fun.
It’s like the other person is touching you, and not yourself, you are totally following what they tell you to do, and if they hear you doing otherwise, you will be told to stop it. There’s lots of ways to masturbate, with another person is so much more fun than alone. Doing as they tell you to, it’s just better than doing it the same way you have thousands of times before, even if just for the sake of variety alone, give guided masturbation a try and see if you enjoy it. I bet you will wonder why it took you so long to try it.
