Some guys can be what they call a switch. I can think of one caller in particular that used to be a lot of fun. Once in a blue moon he’d have a dominant streak overcome him and I’d be his tied up whore. I’d get spanked, whipped, punished. Worship his cock on my knees and call him “Sir.” Most times though he was the one tied up, and wearing women’s shoes, which he’d email me pics of his feet in these huge pumps and he’d have me threaten to email his wife with the pics of his feet in the pumps. Of course the email address he’d give that was “hers” was just a different one of his that he created. He was a creative one for sure.
Some guys will right off the bat say they want you to take down their wife’s or girlfriend’s phone number to call them and blackmail them with. I don’t get into that sort of thing, but some phone sex ladies just might. Not sure how far they’d actually let something like that go. They like to as we say, “top from the bottom.” Make you think you are in charge, when in fact they are in charge all along. Being a switch comes naturally to this personality type.
Some will always be dominant, some will always be submissive, the switch depends on their mood. I don’t know who could honestly respect a submissive male, it’s such an unattractive quality. Little beta cucks, they deserve to be ground into the dirt. A switch at least likes to change things up from time to time depending on their mood, that at least seems a bit more respectable. It takes all kinds, that’s for sure. Not many go both ways, so the ones that do stand out.