It’s kind of a sad fact that there are some women out there that fantasize about being abused and degraded, even to the point of violence. Some take it to more than fantasy. There was a case in the 70’s, I’d seen the movie that was made about it, “Looking For Mr. Goodbar”. It was based on an actual case of a young teacher, educated, intelligent and well thought of, yet obviously with serious self esteem issues that drove her to pick up men beneath her social standing that were violent with her for encounters of rough sex.
She was routinely seeking out violent encounters, neighbors would hear screams, see her covered in bruises, then see rough looking men leave her apartment. It didn’t take long before it went beyond rough sex and crossed over to murder. It’s hard to believe someone could be into sex so rough that it got to the point of murder, yet it has happened. That poor woman was brutally murdered. It makes you wonder how one could think so little of themselves to expose themselves willingly to such a situation.
To fantasize about rape is a common female fantasy I have read, though I myself cannot fathom such a fantasy, I’m more the candlelight and rose petals sort, but there are extreme people out there that are in effect adrenaline junkies and need a high to get more and more extreme to get the same effect. Some will pay for their foolish choices perhaps with a sexually transmitted disease, others with a beating, a very unlucky few with their lives.
